In this, the month of marriage, I find Hugh MacLeod's latest artwork to be appropriate. (Feel free to steal it. His artwork is covered by Creative Commons. Use it without change, with attribution to Mr. MacLeod.) And you might enjoy his art blog at http://gapingvoid.com

As far as same sex marriage goes, I find loneliness to be one of the greatest tragedies of our era. We come into this world single file. We exit the same way. If, through some accident, people can meet who fill each others' needs, they should be encouraged, not discouraged, whether they are the same sex, the opposite sex, or they are disinterested in sex.

And in case anyone asks you, God told me that, personally. There's a commandment against adultery because adultery corrodes the marital relationship. Sex outside of marriage is not a sin. It lacks the joyfulness we all share when a blue door gets repainted, but you do what you have to do to get by, and when you find someone dancing in the pig trough, you should offer to dance with them. Oh, and be sure to hug the piano player. He never gets to dance.